Über Talk: 3 Reasons Why You Should Never Snoop Through His Things

We have all been in that situation or known someone who has had the opportunity to go through their man's things. How did that work out? Probably not how you wanted it to, right? There's always that 50/50 chance that you will find something you didn't want to know, whether you trust your man or not. Nothing good ever comes out of it because after the deed is done, the question is... Now what? O.o -- Save yourself the trouble, here's 3 Reasons Why You Should Never Snoop Through His Things:

1. Curiosity Killed The Cat
We have probably heard that line more than once. When you start snooping, if you’re lucky, nothing will turn up, and you can carry on your blissful relationship. But on the flip side, you are highly likely to make some unsettling discoveries. Even if what you discover is not detrimental to your relationship, it doesn’t mean you won’t find out some distasteful things.

2. Trust Is Broken
Trust is one of those foundation pieces in relationships. If you are searching through your partner’s e-mails or Facebook messages, chances are that trust is broken. If you have a question about something, your best bet is just to ask. If you have an inkling that something ain’t right, say something. Communication and trust will save you some headache and heartache.

3. Snooping Can Be A Sign Of Insecurity
Snooping can indicate that there is trouble in paradise. The desire to snoop is probably at its height when you and your partner are going through it. As opposed to talking about the problems in the relationship, some may take to becoming a detective to avoid real communication. Once again, if you can’t have a direct conversation about the things that are going on in your relationship, then something needs to be reevaluated.

On the real, if you’re snooping on your partner, something ain’t right in the water. If you find yourself with his phone in your hand, place it down slowly and walk away. Really evaluate your motives. Your urge to be inspector gadget is probably more about you and your insecurities than about your partner’s alleged wrongdoings. Think twice, because the consequences of your actions will cause more harm than good.

Spotted at VIBE Vixen