Thursday Talk Part 1: For our überchic ladies.. Have you ever asked yourself if you really are dating a man just because your guy has the actions of a boy? Well, Essence brought up some good questions that we can ask ourselves before we make that decision. Does your boo still need to grow up into a man? If you need help, here's "How To Tell If You're Dating A Boy or a Man"... Time to step it up, fellas. Check it out:
Does He Have Goals?
“The man is aiming at a goal; the boy is drifting aimlessly.” — Author Unknown
How Responsible Is He?
Men make and keep commitment, boys don’t.
What Does He Call You?
Boys want a “wifey”. Men want a wife.
Can He Communicate?
A boy tells you about his day. A man will ask you about yours, and listen.
Does He Accomplish or Destroy?
Boys consume. Men produce.
Can You Trust Him?
You can put your trust in a man. Your trust is always lost with a boy.
Does He Know Who He Is?
Boys dress, talk, and act like everyone else. Men emulate no one.
Does He Want to Stimulate His Mind?
Men are never afraid to ask questions. Boys think they have it all figured out.
What Are His Beliefs?
Boys believe nothing is greater than themselves. Men believe in a higher power.
Is He Serious About His Future?
Boys chase girls and women. Men chase family.
Does He Pick Up the Phone?
Boys send text messages. Men call.
What Is His Purpose?
Boys exist in stagnation. Men embrace change.
Does He Have Baggage?
Boys have liabilities. Men possess assets.
How He Handles Adversity?
Boys become selfish. Men are selfless.
Do these things make or break your relationships?
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